· Culture Shock. Have you experienced any
moments so far when you have felt uncomfortable or lost? Were there any moments
when you felt “at home”? Describe. Next, read the culture shock article
provided by program director. Have you experienced any of the stages of culture
shock? Give examples. In your opinion, is culture shock a positive or negative
experience? Explain your opinion.
I have felt moments where I felt disoriented
and lost. Upon arriving in Madrid, and walking to different shops and
restaurants, I felt lost because I was not familiar with the city or streets. Walking
around a local park made me more comfortable as I gained my bearings and was
able to see similarities between American parks with shops and vendors, while
being aware enough o recognize differences in layout, buildings, and types of
trees/greenery around. I have felt a little uncomfortable in places where I ordered
food and there was initial confusion due to my limited linguistic capabilities.
Despite this, I have felt very comfortable at “at home” in my homestay with
Pilar. She was very welcoming and warm after a long bus ride greeting us and
showing us around the city. She fed us a great meal and was very understanding
of our preference to go rest for the night. She has been very accommodating and
kind and has truly made me feel at home in the room she has provided at her
house.
After reading the culture shock
article, I have experienced a few stages of culture shock. Initially I incredibly
enjoyed Madrid, the different food and restaurants, along with the local night
scene. All of the buildings and museums were new, unique, and different than I had
expected with an older more historic feel. After spending more time adjusting
to the city and then travelling to Toledo and Grenada, I have experienced both
irritation and adjustment. Some of the “normal” or common customs took some
adjusting to including the regularity that set times aren’t followed as closely
in Spain. I am used to being highly concerned with punctuality but in Spain
more informal get togethers like meeting friends for food or to hang out puts
less of an emphasis on being right on time as the time is more of a ballpark
range. It has been a little consuming to be immersed in a place that does not
speak my first language. Trying to understand everything that is spoken takes a
lot more energy than normal which has been slightly frustrating. Currently, I believe
I am in the adjustment phase and am working towards adapting to new practices while
looking at them as the norm for my time living in Spain.
In my opinion, culture shock is a
positive thing. Culture shock comes with uncomfortably which is what promotes
and allows for personal growth. Being unfamiliar and uncomfortable with a
different culture means that you are experiencing something different than you
are used to. When I am able to recognize that something is “strange” from my
perspective, I am able to reflect on what I view as “normal” and why I view my
practice or idea as the standard. Recognizing culture shock has allowed me to appreciate
customs in Spain, while also appreciating some aspects of my home life and
conveniences more than I previously did. Experiencing culture shock has been a
positive and growing experience.
PATRICK! your observations about culture shock are spot on! I didn't understand how different thinking about living in a foreign country for a month verses actually doing it would be!
ReplyDelete100% agree that culture shock allows for personal growth. Y Pilar sounds absolutely wonderful, not gonna lie
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Delete"When I am able to recognize that something is “strange” from my perspective, I am able to reflect on what I view as “normal” and why I view my practice or idea as the standard." This is a great observation, Patrick. Isn't it funny how our cultures/traditions shape up our minds to look at the normalcy or weirdness of everything? It made me think of how great it could be that we were all programmed to see everything as normal as opposed to comparing realities/cultures and finding them weird/annoying/frustrating if they are not what we are used to. But since we don't have that luxury, expanding our horizons and our confort zones beyond ourselves is the only way we can reflect on what we think about our culture and others and grow from there, like you state.
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